Preventative Strategies
1. Being Prepared:
Many problem behaviors can be addressed and prevented by the way we have things set up beforehand and by having a clear understanding of our responsibilities.
- Have materials ready
- Plan for the day
- Set expectations
- Establish routines
- Know policies and procedures
2. Using Positive Approaches
Students are more responsive and more likely to cooperate if we sue standard positive approaches with them.
- Use enthusiasm
- Acknowledge cooperation
- Welcome the students
- Show interest
- Use empathy
- Take time to socialize
- Secure attention
3. Anticipating Problem Behavior
Quite often we can predict what children are likely to do based on our previous experiences. In these situations, we set things up beforehand to prevent anticipating problems.
- Prepare for transitions
- Plan overlap in transitions
- Establish exit routines
4. Catching Problems Early
Often, problem behavior starts out as minor concern and soon escalates into serious behavior. We can prevent these serious behaviors by addressing the minor behaviors quickly and effectively.
- Supervise actively
- Act urgently regarding safety
- Separate students
- Distinguish tattling from reporting
5. Correcting Problem Behavior
When problem behavior occurs, we need constructive tools to direct the student away from inappropriate behavior to appropriate behavior.
- Prompt the task
- Attend to cooperative students first
- Show support then redirect
- Resolve conflicts
- Prompt routines
- Provide warnings
- Write up serious behavior
Adult Behaviors That Can Escalate a Crisis
- Raising your voice or yelling
- Making assumptions
- Preaching
- Backing the student into a corner
- Saying “I’m the boss here.”
- Pleading or bribing
- Insisting on having the last word
- Bringing up unrelated events
- Using tense body language
- Using sarcasm
- Nagging
- Holding a grudge
- Using unwanted physical force
- Drawing unrelated persons into the conflict
- Insisting that the adult is right
- Commanding, demanding, dominating
- Using degrading, insulting, humiliating or embarrassing putdowns
Effective Interventions from the Adult
- Protect the student, environment and others
- Don’t discipline
- Remove the audience
- Don’t talk about the student to others, in front of the student
- Be non-confrontational
- Plan a graceful exit strategy
- Follow a plan
- Obtain assistance
- Prompt to a cool zone as appropriate
- USE FEW WORDS
- Prevent a power struggle
- Re-evaluate the student’s goals
- Be flexible – the student cannot
- Set a timer
- Remain calm and quiet
- Disengage emotionally
- Take deep breaths
Brenda Smith Myles, Jack Southwick, Asperger Syndrome and Difficult Moments, 2005